Tuesday, June 10, 2008

That's Why It's Called A Delusional Fantasy...

There's really a time that this thing we call LOVE can be very confusing, turning our world upside-down with no beginning or ending. Sometimes, you are ready to love that someone but unluckily, she can't no longer love you back. And what's more disturbing is, when you need to let go, it even hurts more. That a real suck, right?

Love is, indeed, a crossroad. A crossroad of thorns, confusion and most of all, it's a rollercoaster of cascading sequences of reality. Like what other people said, love is pain and pain is love. You don't know which way to go until you feel the indescribable pain of truth. Some can let go easily after a number of days or months. Some simply can't even though they already did everything they can.

Is there a scientific explanation for this? Let me know.

If it hurts to love somebody who can't love you back and to let go even hurts more, the best and the last resort you can do is not to think about it. Perhaps, this little thing we call LOVE is the hardest nemesis which we can't outplay with. This is probably the reason why people coined the words "Unconditional Love." They want to believe that love is the most powerful fire of human existence.

Wikipedia defines love as "a representation of range of human emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction." That means it can either be irrational or not. Therefore, unconditional love may exist or simply a delusional fantasy of many. Unconditional love might happen to some but once it goes away, there's always a 60-40 or even 80-20 chance that it will never come back, right?

Reality is, love will move in mysterious ways no matter what and this is one of those saddest realities beyond our control. It's really up to you if you continue to believe in this thing we call love. No expectations + No Time Frame= Unconditional Love; This is a little bit insane, we are only human beings who expects a lot of things to come at the right time. Perhaps, it can be equated this way:

Suppression + Repression = Letting Go of Love

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